Monday, April 20, 2009

Are you commiting these anal sex mistakes?

I was reading one of my favorite anal sex blogs today, Anal Sex Secrets, and I ran across this great entry. I know I have been guilty of at least, ummm, all five. So try not to make the same mistakes I have.

Mistake #1 - Surprising Her With It (Trying To Slide It In Unexpectedly)

So there you are having vaginal sex, both you and your girlfriend are into it, and then you suddenly try to slide it into her ass.

With no warning like that, it’s probably going to be shocking and painful for her. So not only did you send her the message that anal sex hurts, she’s not going to trust you as much.

And that’s the biggest key to getting her to enjoy having anal sex with you, trust.

Now how is it going to go down next time you try to get her to have anal sex with you? I guarantee it’s going to be harder.

Mistake #2 - Pressuring Her

She needs to know and feel that you love sex with her in all it’s forms. That she’s a marvelous lover who keeps you satisfied. If you continually try to pressure her into anal sex, you send the message “I’m not satisfied, I need something else”.

This will only create resistance in her.

Instead, your goal is to make her want it to much that she’s asking you for anal sex. Doesn’t that sound better?

I’ll explain how to do that in a future post.

Mistake #3 - No Foreplay

Just like her pussy here.

The more aroused she is, the wetter her pussy gets, and the more her pussy is ready for your cock.

It’s the same with her ass. It doesn’t get wet, but it does get excited, more receptive to being touched, caressed and even penetrated.

The more foreplay, the better your chances of anal sex and the better it will be.

Mistake #4 - Forcing It In

Most guys get too excited. They shove it in too far too quickly.

This doesn’t feel good to her.

You’ve got to be gentle. Once you do get to the point where she’s ready to have your cock in her ass, give it too her a tiny bit at a time. Once you’re in a little bit, stop. Give her (and her ass) time to adjust to the fullness and accept that much of your cock before giving her a little more.

Mistake #5 - Being Too Rough

Unless she’s a seasoned pro, there’s almost no chance she’s going to like her ass treated roughly.

The anus and rectal walls are very thin, and much more delicate than the vagina. They easily tear and abrade. You’ve got to use tons of lube, and always, always be gentle.

So take your time, listen to her. Pay attention to her body. Be gentle and be patient.

I hope you found this helpful.

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Sunday, April 12, 2009

Caesar 2.0 Love Machine. Future of Sex?




Introducing the Caesar 2.0 Love Machine. This amazing sex machine does everything!

This wonderful machine from BedroomFreak.com comes with a realistic 7" flexible but firm CyberSkin® dildo for women (or men) and realistic CyberSkin® vaginal masturbator for men. The flat base is designed to slip between mattress and box spring for easy use.

The controller goes from 0 pumps per minute all the way to 130 pumps per minute! The barrel is made of high strength, light-weight aluminum (so it can take anything you can dish out) and is easily removed for incognito storage. The adjustable strap fits around the machine and any size mattress for stability. The Caesar 2.0 can be used with beds, chairs, props or the floor just use the straps to secure the machine.

The barrel height can be easily adjusted from 6" to 22" with the simple pull of a spring pin. The remote cord is an adequate 6' with an additional 15' cord length to the whisper-quiet motor for placement and reach anywhere. Rubber coated base dimensions of 20" long by 16" wide for stability at high speeds.

The barrel can be angled and adjusted 180 degrees with the simple handle lock. A large variety of accessories are avaible to add on to this awesome machine. Can be used alone or with a friend.

Total Weight = 24 lbs.
Total Height = 27"

You can get the Caesar 2.0 Love Machine or tons of other adult toys @ BedroomFreak.com.

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Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Review Roundup

We have rounded some great reviews from other sites. We hope you enjoy.



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Sunday, April 5, 2009

Fantasy Sex Swing Review





Today we have a guest post. Hopefully, we will have many more of those. The toy below was provided by BedroomFreak.com - What you need to get off.

The HypeYou and your lover can expand your sexual repretoire by getting into more difficult positions with comfort and ease. With the Fantasy Sex Swing, you don’t have to be in the best shape or be the greatest athlete to get it on in wild positions! Since all these new positions take no effort at all, you can sit back and enjoy the sensations you’re feeling rather than trying to hold yourself in position. Also, making it helpful for those that experience back pain. The Love Swing can be easily installed in a doorway, ceiling beam or used with the swing stand and packs flat for storage.
It’s Famous This toy has been featured on Playboy TV’s “Nightcalls”, and HBO’s “Sex and the City”

What I Liked about the “Love Swing”
First of all, it arrives fully assembled. All I had to do was screw the eyehook into a doorjam, hang the swing from the hook and I was ready to go. That was it!
The padded nylon straps made my sitting, lying and bending over experience in, on and around the love swing most comfortable, even for long periods of time.
Usually I have a fabulous time during my sexual encounters, but the Love Swing brought a refreshing child-like fun to the whole experience. The first time I sat in it, with my feet in the stirrups, all exposed, I started giggling and swinging away. My bo
yfriend came over and continued pushing the swing but every time, I swung back to him, my pussy received a delicious lapping. And that was just to get things started!

The instruction manual was a lifesaver. When we first set it up and was ready to use it, we were almost overwhelmed by the numerous amount of things we could do with it, so we opened the manual and started getting into the same positions as the couple pictured. That kept us focused and it also shed some light on how to vary regular positions like missionary and 69. I was like, “Duh, of course we can do that, why didn’t I think of it before looking in the manual?” So even for those that may not want to get too wild and crazy, there are some really comfortable, yet fun variations on what you may already be doing.

The straps are adjustable on it, so you can really get in any position you desire, also helping it work from woman to man or man to woman. The Love Swing comes with a metal, spring-open hook and a steel spring, so if you want to be lower to the ground, use the spring along with the hook and if you need to be higher, away from the floor, just use the metal hook. For example, in order for my boyfriend and I to have intercourse with me sitting in the Love Swing, it needed to be raised higher up. My boyfriend is 6′4″, so we put the spring aside and just used the metal hook. That put me at just the right height.
The Love Swing is also very easy to clean with a damp cloth. I first used a damp soapy cloth and then just a damp cloth to wash away the soap and let it air dry and that seems to keep it nice and clean.

Most Rockin Part

The stirrups are terrific! You can use them for your feet, ankles, thighs or, if you’re bending over the swing, your hands or arms. When I put my feet in them and sat just on the edge of the butt padding, I felt so exposed. It felt naughty and was extremely exciting. There’s was no hiding place for my kitty, it was out there and available for the taking. Luckily, my boyfriend took away!
I was actually able to get myself into a backbend, with ease, during oral sex. I put my feet in the stirrups and put pressure on those, while I laid back on the back padding alone. I didn’t use the butt padding. I was totally exposed, butt and pussy, and with all the stimualtion that was going on, I just laid all the way back, holding onto the side straps, with my head hanging back and experienced a weightless orgasm. It was so cool! Normally, when I reach orgasm, my body tenses up. Since I felt so free, I was able to just let it all go. That was awesome!
It has a Torque Support Bar across the top of it. I found this to be extremely useful in the woman on top position. My boyfriend sat in the swing and I climbed up on top of him. Unfortunately, I’m not in as good of shape as I used to be, so being on top and bobbing up and down usually doesn’t last that long. But the bar was heaven sent. I straddled my boyfriend, put my feet in the stirrups, because I couldn’t reach the floor (remember he’s tall.) and grabbed onto the Support Bar. I used my arms to help lift me up and totally off his penis and then slowly and gracefully lower myself back onto it. When women are on top, they can get the deepest penetration when they’re sitting straight up. The more they angle their chest toward their man, the more shallow the penetration becomes. So if you’re out of shape, like me, and y
ou have to eventually lean down on the bed with your hands, you can’t get that deep penetration. With the Torque Support Bar, I was able to sit straight up and take in my boyfriend’s penis as deep as it goes. Sweeeeeeeeeeet!
What Didn’t Work For Me

Originally, I installed the Swing in the doorway of my bathroom/bedroom because my bathroom wall opposite the door is a huge mirror, so I figured, fun sex and a show…what could be better?! Anyway, I was only able to use the Swing a couple of times before the wood in my doorjam started to split. I live in an apartment that was apparently very quickly banged together, so instead of splitting any more wood in my doorways I found a great solution…The Portable Swing Tree Stand. Now, before I moved into my new, quickly assembled apartment home, I had it hanging from the closet doorjam in the bedroom of my other apartment and that wood never split, so I guess it really depends on your particular house. Although the hole, that is made in the wood, is easy to close up with some wood filler and then just paint over it and ta-daaaaaa, you’re good as new!

Other Places to Install the Love Swing

I’ve also heard that instead of a doorway, you can install it in a ceiling beam. But I don’t have any of those, so I used the Portable Swing Tree Stand. The Stand is a sturdy, free-standing support for sex swings, and is made to hold up to 800lbs, from its center point. That’s more than any other swing on the market and more than the Love Swing is orginally meant to hold. From a ceiling or doorway, the Love Swing can hold up to 200 lbs with the spring and up to 400 lbs without the spring. So really, anyone can use the Love Swing, that has a sense of adventure.
Now this really isn’t a review of the Portable Swing Tree Stand, but it is a great addition to your Love Swing. It can be easily taken apart into its 11 individual pieces and assembled just as easily within minutes, making it very portable. In fact I will be taking it on my weekend getaway in a few weeks. Woo Hoo! It also comes with upper loops on all 4 legs for additional tie points for mild bondage. It’s only downside is that, for sturdiness and safety, it takes up approximately 5 1/2 feet squared on the floor. So you have to make sure you have enough floor space for it, once it’s set up. Otherwise, it’s a hoot to have. My boyfriend and I use it all the time and we when we’re not using it, we store it under our bed.

The Funniest Part

This really has nothing to do with the actual function of the Love Swing itself, but I’ll share. When I obtained the Portable Swing Tree Stand, I set it up in my living room and just left it all set up. When my buddies would come over, (they know I’m a freak) they would sit in the swing and watch TV. Soon after, I started doing the same thing, it’s that comfortable and it’s a swing in my living room. How much fun is that?

Overall Thoughts

The Swing has been a wonderful addition to my sex life. When I want to add some adventure and fun, my boyfriend and I put on some music, assemble the stand, hang the swing, light some candles and we’re ready for an extremely playful experience. It has allowed us to get in positions we didn’t think we could do and never really thought about trying, which has made sex even more exciting. It’s the most FUN I’ve ever had during sex. It’s like having a jungle gym in our house that’s just for adult playtime.

The ease of setting up, taking down and cleaning, doesn’t make it a chore to use. I’ve never thought, “Oh man…we have to set up the swing first.” It hasn’t made sex any less spontaneous, it’s actually caused a lot more wonderful antificipation because as we’re setting it all up, I start to wonder what we’ll be doing with it. Although I’m not in the best of shape, I’m also not overweight either, but I can see how the Love Swing would be helpful to those that may be a little heavier and a little more out of shape than they’d like to be.

I really was able to just sit back and put forth no effort when I was in the swing. It held me in position and the straps weren’t digging into my skin and cutting off my circulation, which can happen if they aren’t padded enough. So, all in all, I found the Love Swing to be a very pleasureable addition to sexual play.

The Vital Stats:

Comes with: love swing, high strength steel spring, 2 easy spring-open connecting hooks, standard link chain and eyelet bolt
Weight it can hold: up to 200 lbs using spring, 400 lbs. without using spring

Where to get one
You can pick up the Fantasy Sex Swing here or get one with a stand here

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Sunday, March 29, 2009

My Experience with a Prostate Massager. Nexus Vibro Review



You know, I'm an absolute beginner when it comes to anal play, on myself — and a little squeamish, to say the least. But according to the makers of the Nexus massager, the ultimate orgasm is to be found back there. At the very least, this experiment will either prove or refute my friends' claims that I'm a tight-ass. So I gathered my supplies, the Nexus Vibro from BedroomFreak.com and a little Glide lube.

The fun? part

Getting it in's the hard part. It felt like going to the bathroom — backwards. I'm sure that feeling of No. 2-ing in reverse can be gotten used to — but can one actually enjoy it?

"When the Nexus massager is fully drawn into the anus, you will initially feel the pressure of the foreign object. For best results, wait 10 to 20 minutes. The prostate will accommodate the Nexus massager and the foreign sensation will begin to alleviate."

This is actually key. After several minutes, the unwanted-guest feeling slowly subsided and, heck, it actually felt pretty good in there. I read the directions during said waiting period, slightly yet pleasantly aware of the massager's presence.

But after awhile, I lost patience with the instruction manual — which read like an unabridged copy of the Talmud — and I decided to go with my instincts and what I'd gleaned from the web site. The idea is that with some practice, you can reach orgasm just by squeezing your sphincter, without even touching your penis.

After about ten minutes of serious squeezing, I was totally tuckered out and starting to feel a bit silly, what with the toys handle protruding like an albino ram's horn from between my cheeks. I admitted defeat and rolled onto my back to bang one out in the old-school fashion. Lying on my back must have shifted the position of the toy, because I almost dropped came immediately and had to concentrate hard not to. When I came shortly thereafter, the feeling was much more intense than normal. It started as kind of a strong pulsing, originating from my perineum and traveling up the shaft of my old chap. I started to wonder what was achievable if I weren't so weird about the whole thing.


What I Like:

Quality is high, very detailed and well designed. The ribbed shaft combined with vibration is intense and creates incredible sensations. It is made of medical-grade hard plastic so keeping it clean is very easy.
The Nexus Vibro stimulates the entire anal canal during prostate massage and the ball bearing takes male g-spot experience to a new level. Yes, it vibrates the prostate! The Nexus Vibro is a multi-talented Nexus prostate massager, with ball bearings, ribs, and a motor to keep you going way past bedtime.
With a bit more of a bend in the shaft of the prostate massager, the Nexus Vibro presses more firmly on the prostate, and gets right in there to give you deep, hard male g-spot orgasms from deep inside. It also combines the perineum stimulator to apply pressure to the perineum acupressure point with enhanced vibration.

What I didn't like:

Insertion.


Overall:

A very good sex toy for the money and should last a long time. If you are looking to take prostate stimulation to the max, this is the ultimate sex toy for you. Like all prostate stimulators, the Nexus takes practice to receive the full benefit (for some men, it can take months to master prostate stimulators, others a few days), take your time and experiment with this one! I gave this 4 out 5 stars as it is a little expensive (worth it though). I will give it another go, maybe this time during intercourse.

This product can be picked up from BedroomFreak.com here, or on ebay.








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Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Door Jam Cuffs Review


Today we have a sexy review of Door Jam Cuffs. The review was done by Sexnshoes.com

When I first showed D these Door Jam Cuffs from VibeReview, he wasn’t terribly impressed. We’ve already got assorted rope, foam shapes with bondage straps, and an under the bed bondage system - he didn’t think that we needed the Door Jam Cuffs, and he didn’t think they could possibly effective. Little strips of nylon with velcro cuffs on one end, and a small lightweight plastic tube on the other? How could they possibly hold a grown man in place? Underestimating theDoor Jam Cuffs was his first mistake…

The design of the Door Jam Cuffs, is, frankly ingenious. The strip of nylon goes over the top of any regular door, the small plastic tubes go on the opposite side of the door and hold the cuffs, and your victim, in place. No hardware, no messing with screws or nails - these are probably the easiest devices I’ve ever installed, and I love how they set up and tear down in a matter of minutes. We used them on our bedroom door, but they’d be just as easy to use at a hotel, at a bed & breakfast - pretty much anywhere there’s a door.

I ordered D to strip down and position himself in front of the door. First one wrist, then the other were velcroed in place, and D has small wrists so the velcro secured tightly for a nice snug fit. I loved how easy it was! And D was soon to find out just how secure they were. They allowed him just enough leeway to twist and turn around, but not enough to evade the blows of my flogger, my crop, or my hand. He definitely did not expect to be so securely bound, and it was the best kind of evil fun, having him so vulnerable and open, to nipple torture, spankings, all kinds of fun! And when his hands started to turn cool from loss of circulation, it was just a matter of reaching up and undoing the velcro - much easier than fumbling with buckles, locks, and keys. And it was equally easy to put him back in bondage when his circulation improved and he decided he wanted more!

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